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Riding with Wolves | Solo Date 3

Shadow work: a term rooted in Analytical Psychology for “face your nameless, faceless ghosts head-on.” Oh yes, we’re starting this solo date entry with Carl freaking Jung. In Jungian psychology, the “shadow” contains the parts of...

The Scene of the Crime | Solo Date 2

The week after a breakup can feel both impossibly long and unnervingly fast. I don’t think age or experience makes it any easier. I got dumped on a Sunday—our standing Sunday Funday date night. Exactly one week later, I returned to...

The Hermit Retreats, the Empress Orders Breakfast | Solo Date 1

Recently, a man I love decided to retreat from a relationship I thought we were building together. He didn’t have the capacity to show up completely, so he pulled back—not only from us, but from society in general. I understand the...
From Doomer to Bloomer: My Summer of Urban Rewilding

From Doomer to Bloomer: My Summer of Urban Rewilding

How a bag of lettuce became a tiny food forest, a wildlife sanctuary, and an unexpected obsession. The summer of 2026 will probably go down as one of the hottest and poopiest in American history. It's also the year I randomly decided to learn how to grow my own...

Riding with Wolves | Solo Date 3

Riding with Wolves | Solo Date 3

Shadow work: a term rooted in Analytical Psychology for “face your nameless, faceless ghosts head-on.” Oh yes, we’re starting this solo date entry with Carl freaking Jung. In Jungian psychology, the “shadow” contains the parts of ourselves we’ve pushed outside the...

The Scene of the Crime | Solo Date 2

The Scene of the Crime | Solo Date 2

The week after a breakup can feel both impossibly long and unnervingly fast. I don’t think age or experience makes it any easier. I got dumped on a Sunday—our standing Sunday Funday date night. Exactly one week later, I returned to the scene of the crime. Wait. I’m...

The Hermit Retreats, the Empress Orders Breakfast | Solo Date 1

The Hermit Retreats, the Empress Orders Breakfast | Solo Date 1

Recently, a man I love decided to retreat from a relationship I thought we were building together. He didn’t have the capacity to show up completely, so he pulled back—not only from us, but from society in general. I understand the impulse. Things feel bleak. There is...

Coffee grinder? Oh. You mean “bean tornado?”

Coffee grinder? Oh. You mean “bean tornado?”

The Coffee Witch Doodle: Adventures of Thistle McGrimm & Her Cat, Curses 🖤🐈‍⬛👇🏻   Click Here for More Thistle & Curses Adventures!   🕷️📚🔮   Created and imagined by Jaye Rochon / TheKeyOfJaye.com Artwork shared under Creative Commons...

Some Thoughts On… The “Analog Bag” (and Why It Gives Me Hope)

Some Thoughts On… The “Analog Bag” (and Why It Gives Me Hope)

I've been seeing this whole "Analog Bag" trend floating around the internet lately, and as a 54-year-old Gen-X woman, I have to laugh a little. I mean . . . I am an analog bag. 🙃 Apparently we're calling crossbody bags, backpacks and hobby totes "analog bags" now,...

1 Minute Book Review: Heart of the Moors by Holly Black

1 Minute Book Review: Heart of the Moors by Holly Black

Heart of the Moors: An Original Maleficent: Mistress of Evil Novel is an adorable little YA fairytale retelling that any Disney Villains—and Princesses—fan will love. You do need to have seen at least the first Maleficent movie though, as it picks up where the film's...

“And then you become the curse.”

“And then you become the curse.”

Quote of the Day from Heart of the Moors by Holly Black. Just stopping by to catalog what I'm currently reading... because a middle grade novel after a 500-page urban fantasy is a great way to keep your streaks alive, but also take a breather. It's a fun way to...